"INTJs are able to leave relationships when they're over, and get on with their lives. They believe that this is the right thing to do. They may have more difficulty accomplishing the task than they like to exhibit to other people."
heh, haha, ummm...
dang. i've been caught.
well, i can and have moved on. i guess.
i suppose a lot of it is resentment for me for letting it happen in the first place and for him for ever liking me.
i wish so much that had not happened.
i hope my mom doesn't ask me any freakin' questions about this whenever i manage to get home...
"The INFP is quick to find a personal angle in any critical comment, whether or not anything personal was intended. They will tend to take any sort of criticism as a personal attack on their character, and will usually become irrational and emotional in such situations. This can be a real problem for INFPs who are involved with persons who have Thinking and Judging preferences. "TJ"s relate to others with a objective, decisive attitude that frequently shows an opinion on the topic of conversation. If the opinion is negative, the TJ's attitude may be threatening to the INFP, who will tend to respond emotionally to the negativity and be vaguely but emphatically convinced that the negativity is somehow the INFP's fault."
...but i'm both!
dang, i'm a recipe for a disastrous self-image...
"In fact, the INFP internally feels his or her life intensely"
...but only internally...
"INFP...
Have difficulty scolding or punishing others
Tend to be reserved about expressing their feelings
Perfectionistic tendancies may cause them to not give themselves enough credit
Tendency to blame themselves for problems, and hold everything on their own shoulders"
yes. Yes. YES. and YES.
"INTJ... Tend to hold back part of themselves "
YES.
"INTJs are usually difficult to get to know well, and difficult to get close to."
try insanely. and no one is patient enough or cares. thankfully, INFP's internally feel their life intensely.
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