Being Lindsay is: friends texting you once, you never get the text, they go somewhere and do things without you.
Being Lindsay is: the church going wild for a friend's 20th birthday with gifts, parties, and all- you sit down and think 'now who else had their 20th birthday not too long ago...'
Being Lindsay is: I lied, it's more like being Lindsay when friends don't try to call at all and do things without me.

...but these friends usually try very hard to involve me...

and I feel like a brat for comparing birthdays.
Suppose it's just affirmation of what i'm used to, suppose that's the problem with noticing quite a bit.

But hey, as long as I don't let such things get me down i'm in good shape.

and yesterday wasn't about me, it was my friend celebrating her birthday with friends. I'm used to sitting alone, what's one more day?